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Small Wins Create Big Domino Effects

January 12, 2010 by Rosa Say for Say “Alaka‘i”

In the first week of January I spent a good deal of my discretionary time on personal productivity projects (Open Loops, Tech Life Inventory) that will help me clean up my act in 2010.

You’ve had a few tastes of them here: Mantra and theme type encouragements about vocabulary and language of intention which will keep the focus where you want it to be – the “drink your Kool-aid” kind of stuff, which I do think is very important. Vocabulary, and the words you use are powerful, both with inspiring others as an Alaka‘i manager, and with your own self-talk.

What I am switching to now, is the next step: now that I feel better organized, I must engage with definitive action.

Is that where you are too?

Those who lead consistently set a great example, and if you want action from your team they need to see that you are leading the way: You’ve started.

My goal within my Strong Week Plan for January 11 through 15 (Monday through Friday) is that I will achieve a Small Win.

I know, that getting to action taken, and action resulting in achievement, is a good way to start my year off right, and that I must do so as early as possible. My Small Win can begin to create a positive expectancy for me for the whole year through: That’s the Big Domino Effect I am going for. Positive expectancy. Belonging with me, and within me.

A “Small Win” is not small as in insignificant.
It is small as in, you cannot fail unless you completely go lazy on me or get stuck in procrastination. (That was a sample of my self-talk, with “you” meaning me.)

And it IS a win, and a win that isn’t insignificant either. It’s an important win.

It’s a win which is meaningful in some way, and what would be GREAT, is if it is somehow connected to your Ho‘ohana and Alaka‘i intentions. (Okay, that “your” was about you.)

  • Ho‘ohana as being about the important work you do by choice,
    and for better feelings of personal well-being, and
  • Alaka‘i as being about the energies you create all around you and for others (by leading),
    and which you channel effectively (by managing well)

Mine are, and by the time you read this, I hope to be already done with one Small Win, and I will be seeing if I can get a second Small Win in since I’m already on a positive-expectancy roll with the first one I had in mind.

My dominoes will be falling!

So do you have something like that in mind for you too?

Let’s both get our Small Wins done.

January 15th we finish, and January 16 we celebrate. 2010 will be a fabulous year if all weekends are reserved for celebrating, don’t you think?

Photo Credit: Domino by Erica Marshall on Flickr

At JJL: Open Loops, Meet Sweet Closure

January 3, 2010 by Rosa Say

On January 1st I posted: At JJL: Thrive in 2010 by Learning Healthy Living

jjl170x170mainbadge.2009Have you decided to Learn Healthy Living in 2010 too?

I hope you are nodding yes, for without healthy living everything else gets to be a moot point.

Today I am following up with my specific contribution to the JJL month and editorial calendar, with a posting called:
Open Loops, Meet Sweet Closure.

By way of quick preview, here are the subtitles included:

  • January 2010. Healthy Living. Where to start?
    It makes a connection to another post here in our Talking Story archives… following up!
  • Open Loops
    I explain what they are, and how I came to fold them into my vocabulary and Language of Intention.
  • Sweet Closure
    When I work on Sweet Closure I feel strong. I feel prepared. I feel confident.
  • Three Joyful Learning Questions
    2 coaching questions for you. The 3rd is more of an invitation, and I am hoping we get a few responses to learn from in the comments!
    Will I be reading what you have to say?!?!?
    These are just one kind of open loops, and I bet we can work on others together.

Unlaced sneakers by ThaRainbowRaider. on Flickr.

As a final bonus, I make a very public declaration of my own Ho‘ohana Intention: Will you be someone in our Ho‘ohana Community who holds me accountable? Grab your chance, and click over to Joyful Jubilant Learning right now…

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