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On my Best Habit List: Play Tourist

January 22, 2011 by Rosa Say

In keeping with my theme for 2011 as The Year of Better Habits, I am definitely continuing with something I started in earnest during 2010: I’m reaping the joy of playing tourist.

In my dream of all dreams, I’d shed all my earthly possessions but for the essentials I could backpack, convince my family and friends to come with me, and set off to travel the world, living for never-rushed months at a time in as many places as I could. Yep, I really would — and I’m working on being able to do it one day, sooner versus later! I want one of those cool walking sticks which travelers stud with emblems of the trails they have hiked, and I want to take pictures with people who speak a different language, and yet we still understand each other… in our photos we’re always smiling or laughing, and we’re usually hugging.

Meanwhile, I’ve started to do so the practical way close to home, both to appreciate where I am now, and to keep my dream vibrantly alive and within reach: I play tourist.

I don’t have the walking stick yet, but I do have some photos.

Don’t pick the berries

‘ÅŒhelo berries

At least once every two weeks, I get out to see what visitors to Hawai‘i come to see, for there’s so much here, and I want to get my wonder back about it all, and not take it for granted. When I take a trip somewhere new, usually to speak or teach, thanks to Managing with Aloha, I tweak my schedule so I can stay an extra day or two, and play tourist there.

I bet there’s a wealth of attractions nearby to where you live too: Get out and see it. Feel what your visitors feel, when they snap their pictures, and sigh, “Wow, can you imagine what it would be like to actually live here?”

You do. And Nānā i ke kumu: Your sense of place is something to be savored.

Here are some photos I took while at Volcanoes National Park last Sunday, just a bit more than a two-hour drive from my home. I’m still uploading more” you can scroll through the full set on Flickr. A bit of introduction:

When completely opened, Crater Rim Drive is an 11-mile drive which circles the KÄ«lauea summit caldera and craters of Volcanoes National Park, and it leads through both rainforest and desert, with marked scenic stops and short walks on the way. Highlights are the Steam Vents, Jaggar Museum, Halema‘uma‘u Crater, Devastation Trail, KÄ«lauea Iki Crater, and Nāhuku (Thurston Lava Tube).

On this particular day less than a fourth of the drive was open because of the toxic air quality being created by the current eruption, yet I was able to see all of those attractions. You can discover the full character of Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park by adding another 25 miles roundtrip descending 3,700 feet to the coast, dead-ending at a lava flow crossing the road on its land-creating journey to the sea. There are also 150 miles of trails, still including the 4-mile/400 foot descent of the KÄ«lauea Iki Crater trail, where under-the-surface flows still steam through, but are deep below, and considered safe enough to tread.

Volcanoes is a very special place, and it’s such a shame that so many residents of Hawai‘i have never visited. Those who have, know that once is not enough. You might see it all in that one trip, but you leave knowing you’ll want to return.

Devastation Trail
Devastation Trail

‘ÅŒhi‘a ‘ula ‘ula
‘ÅŒhi‘a ‘ula ‘ula

Raindrop kissed Pūkiawe
Raindrop kissed Pūkiawe

Inside Nāhuku
Inside Nāhuku: Thurston Lava Tube

Sawtooth Blackberry blossoms
Sawtooth Blackberry blossoms

Plume of smoke from Halema‘uma‘u Crater
Plume of smoke from Halema‘uma‘u Crater

The ‘Ae fern gets to work
The ‘Ae fern gets to work

Lava lichen
Lava lichen

Related reading in the Talking Story archives:

  1. Wayfinding to Use Your Best Clues and about Nānā i ke kumu: What it means to “Look to Your Source”
  2. Places, Feelings and Learning. Learning Serenity
  3. Learn about Luana this Weekend: I know you have it in you!
  4. [Driving for] Coffee in Paniolo Country
  5. Weekend Warrior (Mine was a Wiliwili tree)

Wonder, Gratitude and Joy

December 22, 2008 by Rosa Say

My camera was with me constantly yesterday: I kept it with me to snap
photos of my day as it happened, participating in the 18th group photo
shout-out held by Flickr, one they call DILO ~ A Day in the Life Of.

I did not plan a special day:
I decided to have a very ordinary one, and just see what would happen. Wonder, gratitude and joy happened.

Well Turned Hibiscus

Continued on MWAC Today: Wonder, Gratitude and Joy

The post also points to my recent Flickr project: A Day in the Life of – December 21, 2008

7 Wonders of Learning – Help make it happen!

June 28, 2007 by Rosa Say

The countdown begins!

Ho‘ohana Community, here is our opportunity to participate in something pretty spectacular, and I know it would be easy for all of you to do, lifelong learners that you are! All you have to do is contribute your 7 favorite learning links!

Join us in our big, hairy, audacious goal to Saturday, 07-07-07 and

Listen, Laugh, Learn, Link, Love, Live
and Leap to Wonder

  • Listen — welcome new ideas and every teacher, listening fully opened
  • Laugh — with the positive and uplifting joy others are ready to give you
  • Learn — with childlike curiosity and in a collaboratively jubilant way
  • Link — use others’ lessons learned as a springboard for your own, sharing your knowledge freely
  • Love — tap into your passion for learning, and be of loving heart in your new bonds with others
  • Live — be a shining example of the Lifelong Learner; “Be the learner you want to see in the world”
  • Leap — to a new experience, stretching past the familiar, accepting leaps of higher intuition.
    Allow learning to transform you, and to bring you to Wonder.

This is the BHAG we are leaping toward at Joyful Jubilant Learning:

On 07-07-07 we are determined to collect at least 777 Learning Links, possibly more.

This is a shout-out to all lifelong learners, readers and writers alike. Will you help us reach our goal? 

Click over to JJL today for the details on how you participate.

Ho‘o! Let’s do this, and help make it happen!

The Wonder of It All

December 4, 2005 by Rosa Say

Whatever you believe,

whatever you profess,

whatever you doubt or fear or hope for,

there are some things

your heart cannot deny

when you let go

and let yourself know

the wonder of it all.

—Ralph S. Marston, Jr., The Wonder of It All

When you are a writer, you become very conscious of words you use all the time. Your mind says, no, not again, you can think of something else! but your hand ignores you and writes them out anyway. It keeps you continually proofreading, editing and rereading, usually best done after you sleep on it if you have that much patience.

Then there are words you use a lot and for some reason the proofreading doesn’t work anymore, it’s as if the word is invisible. These are the ones you have to count on other people pointing out to you, and you learn to suffer through those lapses when those invisible words do make print somewhere, visible to everyone else but you. I think that really may be one of these words for me … do you see it anywhere? That one really gets me.

Some words you absolutely adore, but you have a hard time finding a place they fit in. Still, you keep trying, for they are words that deserve to be printed and shared, and you are determined that is exactly what you will do, as soon as you figure out how. As I’ve mentioned in my List of Aloha Virtues, one of those words for me is “grace.”

Then there are words you use a lot and you just don’t care that you do. You love these words, and you have not been able to find other ones to take their place. They simply were meant to be, and as far as you’re concerned they should take center stage as much as possible.

I have Hawaiian ones (Aloha is a pretty obvious one) and English ones. Topping my list, the English word I use all the time and love is “wonderful.”

Wonder and wonderful are beautiful words to me; in my mana‘o (my belief), they are virtuous words because they have a spiritual connection, an ‘of the spirit’ vibrancy. To have wonder, and be wonder full is to be blessed. If someone says something you have done is wonderful, well wow, that is quite a compliment.

Wonder was on my List of Aloha Virtues too:

Wonder. To have an inner capacity that can always make room for awe and wonder is such a blessing. To return to child-like innocence and acceptance, to be rendered speechless, and have it feel good and right, never helpless. To not have all the answers but feel it is perfectly fine not to, to just have wonder.

After he had read our December Ho‘ohana on Faith and Family, Charles Pappas of our Ho‘ohana Community sent me a link to a wonderful presentation called The Wonder of it All. Chuck and I would like to share it with the rest of you on this winter’s Sunday. Froth up an Eggnog Latté and enjoy.

The Wonder of it All.
– this is the presentation link, and
– this is the link to the poem by Ralph S. Marston, Jr.

Mahalo nui loa Chuck.

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