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PÅ«‘olo Mea Maika‘i: Playlists

May 15, 2010 by Rosa Say

PÅ«‘olo mea maika‘i is ‘a bundle of good things’ you return home with.
Things you feel are gifts.
Noun or verb? Depends on your kaona… you can decide :-)
Add this post to our hau‘oli‘oli listing of  weekend diversions…

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One of the things I am totally embracing in this 2010 Change it up! world of ours, is an end to my previous habits of conspicuous consumption. The timing is pleasing, and just right for me.

I no longer have any desire to read Martha Stewart’s “Good Things” which used to be my favorite part of her Living magazine, or skim through Oprah’s O Lists. I cancelled both magazine subscriptions a while back, and I’m not missing them.

I embrace all the economic reasons of currently in-vogue frugality, and fresh realizations that there are better things to do with one’s money, like giving to causes nobler than self-indulgence. There’s also an aging self-indulgence: Hubby and I are now empty nesters, with glorious permission from both of our baby birds to “oh please mom, do throw away anything I’ve left behind.” Those sweet tweets are no longer falling on deaf ears as we seek to purge and unclutter, freeing ourselves from all the stuff we’d once thought made a house a home (and did, during another time, if we kindly forgive ourselves for past lapses in better judgement). We make new lists: Places we want to see, vacations we want to take, dinner parties we can have in the house instead of on lawn chairs in the carport… most things on our list no longer have to do with collecting or buying things. They’re about experiences to have before time runs out or we simply get too old and tired.

Dealing with physical consumerism has been very easy. However what I still struggle with, is bundling my mea maika‘i of treasured knowledge and digital information.

I still want to read most of it,
wading through to filter it.
I still want to collect the good bits,
keep them indexed and archived for best-possible retrieval,
and then savor them at opportune times.

Yet one (just 1)
good (and only good)
trusted system
of how to do so eludes me.
It’s driving me crazy.

Two of my favorite Tumblrs got me thinking about this again this past Thursday. Frank Chimero started it when he posted Text Playlist:

…one made of the best writing on the web I come across. I take this list and revisit and reread it every 4 to 8 weeks. You could almost consider it a playlist of text: it’s very select (I artificially limit it to 10-15 articles), I typically read them all in one sitting, and the order and pacing is very purposeful. Most revolve around what it’s like to be making things in 2010, and a lot of the people that I respect the most have pieces in it. It’s almost a pep talk in text form. I visit it when I’m down, when I’m lazy, when I’m feeling the inertia take over.

Take a look at his playlist: 10 articles are listed, all very good for your mental gymnastics this weekend.

A bit later in the day, Liz Danzico followed suit with this story:

In a bricked basement in Savannah earlier this year, I found myself trading playlists with a woman I’d never met. She, writing a somewhat academic second edition of a book that wasn’t hers the first time around, was experiencing some sort of block. Have you read the “Clackity Noise,” I asked?

It was then I realized that I had a writing playlist.

I explained to her that whenever I’m feeling uninspired, I reread a handful of things that remind me, ground me, reframe and reposition me, sometimes frighten me frankly, back into or out of where I was. I have websites of this sort. Posters. Trees. Scraps of letters. But these, these were the most threadbare. Does she not have that? She did not. I presented her with the playlist.

Take a look at her playlist too. 10 more articles are listed. Between the two you will feel quite a palena ‘ole abundance [MWA Key 9], I promise you.

For now I am resisting the oh-so-strong urge to come up with a playlist of my own for you, for these two are enough, and I want to share without overwhelm so you can savor too.

Don’t skim or scan: Read slowly and deeply. It’s the weekend, so take your time. Don’t miss the dessert of paragraphs from Liz when you get to the end of her playlist.

Within my own May weekend I am likely to read both playlists through again for myself. Slowly, and with warming sips of gently brewed green tea. I’m going to resist the urge to write and think more on this digital archiving I am still pulled toward figuring out.

Photo Credits: Empty nest by Rocketships-Jellyfish on Flickr
The dessert was one I had while on a trip to see my baby birds :)

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At JJL: Thrive in 2010 by Learning Healthy Living

January 1, 2010 by Rosa Say

Hau‘oli Makahiki hou ~ Happy New Year!

jjl170x170mainbadge.2009I am posting at Joyful Jubilant Learning today, to kick off our learning theme for January:
Join us there, and kick off your learning in this promising new year…

At JJL: Thrive in 2010 by Learning Healthy Living

Let’s LEARN in 2010, more than we ever have before. Let’s learn, and let’s thrive.

We enthusiastically present a single learning resolution to you, one we feel is universally important, and very basic for all lifelong learners: Learning Healthy Living for the New Year.

When we learn how we thrive, we’ve gained ‘Health Wisdom’

You see, good health, —make that, great health— is our sincere wish for all of you, and as early in 2010 as you can possibly achieve it. Bank your health wisdoms so they can serve you well in the months to follow.

Why? Well first, being healthy just feels better, pure and simple.


Photo credit: Swim by Bart van Damme on Flickr

Second, it takes scads of energy to tackle a new year with all the goals we set our sights on. We learners, by nature, are ambitious. So we need strength to focus on those goals. We need the vitality, vim and vigor which keeps us diligent and tenacious in our efforts, and brave about experimentation. We know our mistakes can make a mess at times, but they’re playful, learning messes!

Continued… Read more, at Joyful Jubilant Learning

Take 5 in 2010: A Game-Changing Ho‘ohana

December 21, 2009 by Rosa Say

Preface: When you see our Ho‘ohana Community badge pop up on top, you know a newsletterish-ish post is coming up… this one is an Aloha readiness for 2010.

Aloha my friends and faithful readers of Talking Story,

Ho‘ohana CommunityI hope this reaches you inspired by the holiday spirit of this special week. December provides us with a great variety of gifts, and when you look for them purposely you can find they are waiting for your discovery! As I shared in a tweet yesterday:

No more blue Christmases, pretending to be happy when you’re really sad… Ho”›o it and make it happen better… get out and connect with people.

You who know me, and know Managing with Aloha are aware of what I mean by “Ho‘o it” —Make something happen! For some of us that means more energy, more fires burning brightly. For others it might mean the calm contentment we call ma‘alahi, which can be another bright intensity, another kind of luminaria. Either way, December is a month you can claim.

We lay our ‘claim’ early this year

I have just returned from an early Christmas celebration held in Nevada with my ‘Ohana, my family. The Silver State proved to be a central point we could convene to this year, and our Christmas Day was celebrated early, on December 17th.

So today I find I am scheming about the New Year earlier than I normally would, streamlining and fine-tuning my intentions with the detailed plans I have spent several weeks thinking about. It is a time the thinking gets written down on paper to be sharpened with the clarity of both my full attention and deliberate, committed intention. In a word, it is my Ho‘ohana writing time once more! Bless.

This posting then, is to share more about what I am thinking with you.

Strategy: Less will be more

My overall strategy for 2010 became clear to me early on: Less will be more.

Despite the financial frugality of the lingering recession, in my personal experience of it I found 2009 to be a year of information gluttony. It was financially frugal for me too, and there was not much indulgence within 2009, for ‘indulgence’ was something which remained quite unattainable for various reasons, but still, we have been searching.

Searching and finding. Our choices have seemed so overwhelming, especially for the business reinventions the recession has mandated. When our annual Sweet Closure arrived in October I found that there were so many options to wade through, sort intelligently, and then make my choices from. Did that happen for you too?

This I know, and am quite sure of: While I am grateful for the idea generation those many options revealed, I don’t want any more choices. I want to stop looking, and begin to dwell within the ones I know to be good and right for me, remaining focused and contented within those selections. Fewer choices which are well attended to can flourish better; they can bloom. When they bloom, I can be healthier along with them, for I’m the one choosing them, and attending to them.

I give you one guess as to which number I will refuse to exceed in 2010 when making any kind of list at all, including that all-important strategic one which generates my livelihood…

Christmas Bows

Objectives: We “Take 5”

“Taking 5” has proved so good for me in the past, and I trust it. Here are the 5 things I now consider the lumps of clay awaiting my own Ho‘ohana sculpting throughout 2010. I also offer them to you, inviting you to join me.

1. Say Leadership Coaching will serve Great Managers directly

We have several neighborhoods within our Ho‘ohana Community and each remains very important to me in some way. Our relationships are strong and they give me a personal strength I would be foolish to deny or neglect. That said, some have been purely social, others experimental, the wonderful result of the goodness of ‘Ike loa, pursuing our value of learning. Within these past years of growth however, there is one group I feel I may have strayed from way too much, and they are those Managing with Aloha was primarily intended to serve: Those who will be our Great Managers of the future.

I may have needed the recession to see this as clearly as I now do. In the past, Say Leadership Coaching has served managers through their companies, but not directly as the individual warriors they need to be, especially now in our struggling economy. We continue to need a reinvention in the ever-critical Role of the Manager, and I intend to be quite stubborn in speaking directly to managers throughout 2010 instead of through the filter of their bosses.

To be clear, their bosses were always on board in the companies I worked with or MWA would not have been part of their program in the first place, but there was a budget which accommodated us all, and that is no longer the case. If we are to continue making progress, the managers who are not owners will have to forge their own path, and be an economic force to be reckoned with. Managers must become game-changers.

It will require quite an exploration as to how I can effectively reach out as I need to. I say the recession helped me see this, in that the slashing of training budgets separated me from many of the managers I had been reaching unless they happen to read one of my blogs, and many who consider themselves way too busy “in the trenches” of their day-to-day work are not connected to us yet. In other words, I want to serve an audience I know I am not yet reaching sufficiently. I am hoping that you who read Talking Story will help me figure this out: How do we get more managers to convene here, and become a strong community intent on being our game-changers of the future?

Having arrived here, the core of what we will then talk about is next. It will translate into the product line my business entities will concentrate on producing in order to best serve Great Managers…

2. M/L Practical: The 30/70 Mission of Managing with Aloha

The 30: Leading to create the critical resource: Energy
The 70: Managing to channel that resource into the core ‘product’ great managers produce: People who Ho‘ohana (people who thrive within their worthwhile work)

Hopefully, these managing versus leading definitions are now familiar to you, as is my insistence that managing and leading are verbs which ALL managers do; they need not have the title of ‘leader.’

More about this strategy was contained in this posting a few weeks back: Reduce your Leadership to a Part-time Gig in 2010

3. Jobs Reinvented and Delivered for Best Livelihood

I admit it: In the past I have minimized much consideration of “job” in favor of us investing all of our energies in Ho‘ohana instead. Well, another lesson from the recession: I downplayed jobs too much. Great Managers must serve those who may never choose Ho‘ohana just as much as they must serve those who do.

It has become brutally clear that we need jobs created if we are to have a healthy economy (and in turn, a healthy humanity.) Great Managers then, must expand their reach into two critical products of their managing/leading work:

  1. People who work to Ho‘ohana, eventually choosing some kind of entrepreneurship for an ‘Imi ola degree of self-employment/self-sustenance on their own terms, and
  2. People who work for the best livelihood of a forever-necessary or recession-proof job, or at minimum, a job which is lucrative enough to deliver long-term financial security

We need Great Managers to be those game-changers who enable these choices as feasible for our current society. In their new game-changing role, managers must be the bridge connecting the workforce with business owners who normally have blinders on where this fact reigns supreme in existing business models: The most efficient and profitable businesses are those with as few employees as possible.

That assumption is not very conducive to job creation, and managers must be our New Economy Saviors: They must illuminate the possibilities where human beings at work are exponentially necessary, not just costly.

4. Small and Nimble Self-Managing Teams and Tribes

Game-changers require new team formats they can tap into and create mini-movements with, movements which can achieve faster momentum when energies become available. I believe that the winning teams and tribes in 2010 will require 3 key qualities:

  1. They will be small. Small is quicker in decision-making. Small is more innovative, adept at handling project pilots and seizing opportunities.
  2. They will be nimble. Nimble can be agile in taking action with a sense of urgency. Nimble is more customer and market responsive.
  3. They will be self-perpetuating, learning to embody the same 30/70 guideline in self-leadership and self-management.

Organizational cultures have been fat and slow. We have all depended on leadership/management structure, ownership and procedural systems much too much. Small, nimble, and self-managing teams can function much better without the foot-dragging bureaucracy that conventional business structure has erected as an obstacle or excuse.

“Big business” you are so over. Small teams and tribes, your day has come.

Let me be clear: Big businesses have worthy missions and visions too. However to achieve them in today’s world they must become smaller in their approach so they can be effective. If they aren’t effective, they won’t be successful. End of story.

What I’ve said so far can be a bit scary. It sounds like a lot of small pieces running very independently, possibly wreaking havoc, doesn’t it. Keep reading, we’re almost done, and number 5 will be about the ties which bind brilliantly.

5. Critical, Consistent, Clear Communication

Here on Talking Story we have always known this to be true: Language, vocabulary, and conversation combine as our primary tools in business communications. What we speak of day-to day is likely fifty times more important than what we write or read, and when they all come together cohesively – wow. The need for CLEAR, intentional, reliable and responsive communication is critical in thriving businesses — and in thriving relationships. Drive communication of the right messages consistently, and you drive momentum and worthwhile energies.

That’s the ‘why.’ Now, how about the ‘what?’ Communication is huge and we need a focus.

We have our focus, and I have been the one guilty of straying from it as I’ve dabbled in other learning. Our focus is, and always will be the language and vocabulary of Managing with Aloha, and the conversations here on Talking Story as our mothership online.

In 2010 we will again honor our MWA value-alignment in our Language of Intention and our Hawaiian value themes will return. They may not always conform to precise monthly windows, but you will again be hearing much more of the 19 values of Managing with Aloha, I promise you.

Will you be here in 2010?

Will you be here, reading more of Talking Story throughout 2010 knowing of this Take 5 outlining my Ho‘ohana intentions? I do hope so!

We Ho‘ohana together, Kākou.
You can live, work, manage and lead with Aloha; I know you can. Question is, will you?

Tell me, what do you think about this? I would love to hear from you: Let’s talk story.

Rosa Say 2009
Rosa Say

Postscript:
From Managing with Aloha, if you have not yet seen it: This will convey more of my Language of Intention when I use that phrase “Great Manager.”
The Calling of Management: The 10 Beliefs of Great Managers

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